Sandra “Sandi” Avery, age 79, of Dexter, Michigan, passed away November 20, 2025. She was born on January 11, 1946 in Grand Rapids, Michigan, to Tom and Fran VandenBrink. Sandi lived an extremely vibrant, full life and was the embodiment of adventure, from traveling the world, to jumping off bridges and out of airplanes, to trekking up mountains, to riding her motorcycle about the country.
Sandi was a graduate of Eastern Michigan University, and served as an occupational therapist in Ann Arbor, Michigan, until retiring in 2006. Her career was a reflection of her thoughtfulness and genuine caring about people. Sandi will be remembered for the way she made everyone who knew her feel valued, welcomed, and cared for. Her regular calls and visits to friends and family will be deeply missed. She was fiercely devoted to her family and was considered the family social coordinator and was often referred to as the family “glue.” Her legacy of kindness, thoughtfulness, and generosity will live on in the hearts of all those she touched.
of Ann Arbor MI, our loving and nurturing mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully on November 15, 2025 at the Chelsea Retirement Community (Chelsea, MI) at the age of 95 years. Ruth was born to James A and Alice Barton Payne on January 16, 1930 in Newburgh, NY, and grew up in nearby Highland Mills, NY. Following High School, she graduated from St Luke’s Nursing School in New York City in 1950. After two years of hospital nursing, she left the city for Denver, CO eventually moving to Ann Arbor, Michigan to work at the Women’s Hospital at the University of Michigan (1955).
She met a young resident physician, George R Thompson, MD and within a year they were wed (1957). They lived in Ann Arbor, Michigan to raise their family, then in their late years resided at the Chelsea Retirement Community. Ruth was our stay-at-home mom, shuttling us to this and that, helping with homework, raising us to be productive adults, all the while modeling a quiet faith and teaching us how to interact in the world with grace. She was active in the United Methodist Women at the Calvary UMC for much of her life, International Neighbors (assisting spouses of international students), and made the finest potato salad ever served at the church potluck dinners. She was also an expert pie chef and was fascinated by Lady Slippers.